In the first year after my divorce, I slept with 8 men! How does a single mother find love?
Laura Williams was living the life of her dreams — three children, a devoted husband, an apartment in Manhattan and a country house. Everything was perfect until she found out that her husband was having an affair.
This was told by friends of the American. Of course, this was a real shock for Laura, because she and her husband had known each other since college and had been married for 22 years.
Without thinking twice, Williams kicked her husband out of the house and began divorce proceedings. Five months later, Laura was already a free 47-year-old woman who had no idea how her life would change in a short time.
To somehow make up for lost time in her marriage, Williams began to learn new technologies, including dating apps. The American registered in one of them, and almost immediately received an invitation to a date.
Now everyone has the freedom to do whatever you want. If you want to sleep with two different men in a day, then you can do it. If you want to arrange a date in the middle of the day, the main thing is to find time.
The only person who can judge you is yourself. And if it suits you, to hell with everyone else, ”said Laura Williams.
After several dates, almost all of which ended in intimacy, Laura realized that this was exactly what she needed. She did not need a relationship or a strong male shoulder nearby. The only thing Williams wanted was to have fun for a few hours together.
A year later, the number of her partners reached eight, but this did not frighten her at all, but on the contrary, made her feel alive. At some point, Laura realized that it was sex that helped her to experience grief from a divorce from her husband.
In the first year after my divorce, I slept with eight men. Actually, I didn’t care anymore. A man didn’t even have to be a good person. It didn’t matter when it was only about intimate relationships, ”admitted Laura William.
At first, Laura thought that at the age of 47 she would already be unattractive to men, but the stereotype about the love of the stronger sex only for young girls turned out to be wrong.
It is a lie that if people are older, they are less desirable. Men were very attracted to the fact that I was a strong woman who did not want anything from them and sometimes commanded, ”explains Williams.
At some point, Laura even had to schedule meetings.
I had to distribute the day so that meetings with men did not overlap with the arrival of the nanny, ”said the American.
Now Laura is 51 years old and at the moment she is in a relationship, although she herself does not want to call it that. She and her partner stick to a free format, preferring to choose their partners for one night.
By her example, Laura is trying to prove to all women that loving sex is normal, and in some moments it can save you from serious problems. This American told the New York Post.
Sex made me alive when I felt dead inside. I found a power I didn’t know about. And I also discovered an openness and sexual curiosity that I never thought I was capable of, ”summed up Laura Williams.
