Jen is tired of the constant emotional seesaw of her ex-husband and Lopez! She wants to run away.
According to insiders, Jennifer Garner has made a conscious effort to distance herself from the ‘circus’ surrounding her ex-husband Ben Affleck’s marriage to Jennifer Lopez, which has brought back ‘traumatic’ memories for the actress.

Garner, 52, and Affleck, 51, who recently’moved his things out’ of the $60 million mansion he shares with On The Floor singer Lopez, 54, have been spotted together in recent weeks amid rising rumors that his two-year marriage is’shaky footing.
‘Insiders previously stated that Garner had been acting as a ‘counselor’ to the ailing couple, urgently attempting to assist them resolve their apparent troubles — but now sources claim the Elektra actress has decided to remove herself totally..

‘Jen eventually got to the point where she was like, «Sorry, figure this out yourself,»‘ a source told DailyMail.com exclusively.
‘It was becoming too difficult for her since it was triggering so many memories of their divorce.’ Affleck and Garner, who have three children: Violet, 18, Finn, 15 (formerly Seraphina), and Samuel, 12, were formerly married from 2005 until their divorce was completed in 2018.

Garner has apparently been dealing with memories of her own marriage and subsequent breakdown with Affleck in recent weeks, and despite her fondness for Lopez, she no longer wants to be so involved.